The other woman, you are as dry as your name sounds. Writing about you does leave me with so much stress of what to write. Because of want of what to write about, I went through tedious research just to see if I can land a clue but there was not much to lay my hands on. In my bewilderment, I asked myself why you are as dry as the hurricane wind? The answer is because you are baseless with no values to discuss.
But why must I talk about you? Yes! I have to, because your deeds are tearing most homes apart and you have left several bombs on the lane of happy couples. The big question is: who really is the other woman? You may not know her easily because she hides her identity behind thick shelves like snails. She hides because her deeds are usually evil and awful. The most annoying part is that these are folks that are of the same stock with me – the daughters of Eve. I am one person who loves the specie I am made of. I love the fact that I am a woman. I couldn’t have fared better in an otherwise skin. I love the fact that I could be loved to the extend that my husband had sleepless nights and emotional investments to get me convinced to be his Helen of Troy. I love the fact that, I am his sweet heart and the mother of his children. I love my tender skin and the sweet and sonorous voice of a typical woman. I love the fact, that I am not the head but the neck. I love the fact that I am the chief executive of my kitchen. I love the beauty which my feminity radiates. Given the chance again, I will always root for the woman that I am.
Yes! In us (women) the beauty of the world revolves. We are the flowers of our society, the joy of our homes and the pride of our children. I couldn’t have wished for a better specie of the homo sapiens than the woman specie.
Imagine the disappointment I suffer when 1 see my fellow women behaving irresponsibly to the extend of dating another woman’s husband. Some have graduated to where they go out with their best friends’ husbands. This they do without remorse or shame. To them they are enjoying life. But come to think of it, is that really a life of enjoyment? You call that happiness? But how can you be happy being a princess in Hell. Can any body ever be happy to answer a daughter in Sodom?
You are the one that stand on the high walls of marriage to lure silly men away from their marital vows. Yes some men are stupid by telling you that you are the best and the only good that has happened to them, and you are quick to believe such lies even when you know that they are all bundles of lies. You are interested in the hide and seek game because that is what you have desired. Not just that you desired it but you worked hard to catch them, I mean the stupid ones.
Sometimes, I wonder at the ordeals you go through to get your Samson’s fall on your laps. One of such ordeal is that you sleep with a native doctor, a mad man and the animal called dog just to acquire your powers to lure your customers. These charms are deposited strategically in your body so that they can function effectively to carry out your wish. I know your powers and their hidden places. If any one wants to discover them, the person should search your hips, eyes, your fore head or your tongue and those powers will be found.
Yes! Those in your captivity will come to tell you that their wives are monsters, good for nothing or that they are no longer sexually attractive. They tell you, you are the best just to get what is under your two legs. You are quick to believe them for one reason – the cash you want from them. At your meeting points, both of you enjoy executive rooms and beds with the choicest drinks and wines, but at the end, the man reminds you that he must get home because the useless, stupid, wicked and dirty wife is waiting. At such periods, you have never paused to ask yourself why? Why should this man move from a body that is sweet, succulent, beautified and trendy to a body that is dirty and wicked with no air of love around her? It is a mystery you must provide answers to so that you can then know the real level where you belong. In case you don “t know, the same man who tells you that he is on the verge of divorcing his wife will come home and tell his wife “Honey I’m home’” He will tell the wife stories of the good experiences of the day and your name will not be mentioned showing you are not important. The next day, you will be shocked to see him walk into the super market hand in glove with his real sweetheart, in fact at such moments, you will have no power to challenge or call him to order because you don’t have such capacity.
But should the wife get you in similar circumstance with her husband you can be sure of a bucket bath of hot water and yet you claim that you are the favoured one. No! You are not. Rather you are both a disgrace and a shame to the society in general and womanhood in particular.
A man may decide to take his wife away from their natural abode to a good hotel to spend some days or over the weekend. When they do, they go with confidence. But in your own case, your heart skips at the sight of a cockroach because both of you are thieves stealing what does not belong to you.
Invariably, he tells you that his wife is the problem. No; the wife has no problem. Rather he has because he allows the little element between his thighs to control him. He has problems because he lacks self-control and as such your little white substance usually throws him off balance. He has problems because he lacks the wisdom and courage to rule his heart and home. He is not a man and he belongs to the category of those that God regretted creating. He is a disgrace because he stupidly has violated the vow he made to be faithful to his marriage before many witnesses including the priest, the host of heavens and God Almighty; so you can see that he is the one who has problems.
You still think and feel that you are the favoured one and the best? No! You are not. If you are, why is he not proud to show case you before the public? Why must he meet you in secret and obscure places away from the eyes of men? Beautify creatures are admired and the owners feel proud to show case and flaunt them. When a man marries a beautiful wife, he tells everyone that she is his’s but that is not the case with you as no one can ever feel fulfilled in an ugly situation like you no matter how supposedly good looking you think you are.
Having been benevolent enough to tell you your true position in your supposed man’s life. How long will both of you continue in this deceit? There is one thing that awaits you and that is that at the end, this journey that you have embarked on will leave you with several bruises, disappointment, deceit and after all, your life will be filled with sadness and shame. When you turn back, you will discover that your randy lover has flown back into the arms of his real woman where he is safe and secure. As for you, you would be left in the cold and dark environment where your companions will be regrets, degradation and shame. Be wise for once. Say “Bye-Bye” to the deceitful creature before you cry “Had I known” Be better informed.
